LCYG – Youth (Page 16)
Slow Down the Emotion
• • • • • Parenting Tip October 18, 2012 Slow Down the Emotion When the emotion starts increasing in your interactions, it’s time to slow down the process. One mom said, “I feel a lot of intensity and tend to react without thinking. It’s as if my emotions have the ability to bypass my brain. It takes work to understand what’s actually going on. I’m learning to slow down and think more about what I’m feeling. I’m making progress…
You Don’t Want to Raise a People Pleaser
• • • • • Parenting Tip October 14, 2012 You Don’t Want to Raise a People Pleaser Many children grow up in homes where parents react with explosive anger. These children learn to make decisions based on avoiding the next angry outburst. Unfortunately they then may grow up to be people pleasers. Anger appears to work in the short run. It gets kids moving or motivates them to stop and listen. But in the end, it damages a child’s…
Dealing With Sarcasm
• • • • • Parenting Tip October 11, 2012 Dealing With Sarcasm Communication is like sitting at a table and passing messages back and forth. Anyone can take a piece of paper and a pencil, write down a message, and give it to anyone else across the table. A sarcastic remark, however, is like handing one piece of paper over the table and another one under the table. It sends mixed signals as the word message is inconsistent with…
A Heart Approach is Different
• • • • • Parenting Tip October 8, 2012 A Heart Approach is Different Many parents use a simple behavior modification approach to raise their children. “If you get your homework done, then you can go out and play.” “If you clean your room, then you can watch a video.” Unfortunately children trained this way often develop a “What’s in it for me?” mentality. “If I don’t get something out of it, why should I obey?” God is concerned…
Parenting Insight You Can Use Now
Parenting Insight You Can Use Now As children grow and mature, parents must make adjustments in the way they parent. Some of those changes are minor or subtle; others are more significant. In the same way that children go through developmental stages, parents must learn to adapt by shifting the way they interact, care for, and discipline their children. Just when you think you’ve got it all figured out, your child changes and you feel like you’re starting all over…
Make Mealtimes Fun
• • • • • Parenting Tip September 26, 2012 Make Mealtimes Fun In many homes, dinnertime is the only time when the family actually gets together. This becomes more pronounced as children get older and schedules become more complicated. It’s unfortunate that many parents overemphasize manners or food choices or even use the table talk as a time to go over the offenses of the day or to further discipline children. All of these things may…
Why a Bedtime is Important
• • • • • Parenting Tip September 24, 2012 Why a Bedtime is Important One of the gifts parents can give their children is teaching and developing the character quality of self-discipline. With young children, in particular, bedtime is a good place to start. Children often don’t want to go to bed and the continual battle night after night is draining, causing many parents to just give up and allow children to stay up later. A bedtime for children…
Teach Children to Take a Break
• • • • • Parenting Tip September 19, 2012 Teach Children to Take a Break When you begin to see a bad attitude or hear that manipulative whining voice, have your child take a Break. With young children, as young as two or three years old, have them sit in a particular place, a chair, a carpet square, the hallway, or a bottom step. For older children, you might send them to the parent’s room or to…
Will Work 4 Socks
WILL WORK 4 SOCKS Each year our youth group participates in an activity called “Faith in Action.” They join forces with other youth groups to collect and distribute supplies to the homeless in the Houston area. Our target goal is to serve 500 people in need. This year, the League City youth group is in charge of collecting 1,000 pairs of socks (enough for 2 pairs for each person in need), 500 tubes of Chap Stick, and 100 tote…
Other Leaders and Authorities
• • • • • Parenting Tip September 12, 2012 Other Leaders and Authorities During the early elementary years, children usually begin to develop interests and attend activities outside the home. The circle of leadership in your child’s life will broaden as you enroll your child in sports, music, and other programs. In these situations your child will learn to respond to different cues, limits, and forms of correction from other leaders and authorities. Most children need help knowing how…